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Why Life Transitions Trigger Migraine and How to Find Your Flow and Relief Again

10 min

Do migraines flare during life changes? Discover how transitions stress your nervous system, and how to move through change with flow and relief.

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You’ve stepped out of the old routine, the old home, the old identity… and somewhere in that space between what was and what will be, migraine entered your life. Transitions stretch the nervous system in ways we rarely talk about — and your brain feels every ripple.

In this episode of The Migraine Heroes Podcast, host Diane Ducarme explores why life transitions so often collide with migraine onset or flare-ups. Whether you’ve moved cities, changed jobs, become a parent, left a relationship, or simply entered a new season of life, this “in-between” state can be both emotionally rich and physiologically destabilizing. We dive into the neuroscience of uncertainty, the emotional landscape of change, and the Eastern lens of movement, grounding, and flow — to help you understand why your symptoms appeared right here and how you can move forward with clarity.

You’ll discover: 🌫️ Why transitions feel so physically uncomfortable — how your brain processes uncertainty, and why the body tightens and reacts before your mind catches up 🌍 How travel, upheaval, and emotional shifts activate the same stress circuits that amplify migraine risk 🧭 How to help your system adapt, find rhythm again, and reduce the nervous-system overload that often comes with big life changes 🌀 Why Eastern philosophies see transition not as chaos, but as a fluid state of transformation — and how learning to “flow” instead of brace can soften symptoms 🧠 The neuroscience of identity shifts — and why losing your old version of self can create temporary internal disorientation This episode is for you if you’ve ever wondered: Did my migraine start because of that change? And why is it still here?

Whether you’re in the thick of transition or looking back on one, this conversation shows you how to navigate the in-between with more understanding, more grounding, and more flow.

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References:

  • Foundations of Chinese Medicine (Maciocia, 2015): Giovanni Maciocia’s seminal text outlines how organ-system imbalances, qi flow, and circadian cycles contribute to stress patterns, fatigue, and headache syndromes, bridging Eastern theory with modern integrative health. Read more here.
  • **Stress and the Brain: From Adaptation to Disease, Nature Reviews Neuroscience (de Kloet E.R., Joëls M. & Holsboer F., 2005): **de Kloet, Joëls and Holsboer describe how acute stress can be adaptive while chronic stress reshapes neural circuits, increases inflammation and disrupts emotional regulation, mechanisms that lower migraine thresholds and intensify pain sensitivity. Read more here.
  • Travel, Sleep & Circadian Rhythm: This Sleep Foundation resource explains how jet lag, light exposure, and travel stress disrupt the circadian rhythm, affecting inflammation, stress hormones, and migraine vulnerability. Read more here.
  • A Model of Neurovisceral Integration in Emotion Regulation and Dysregulation (Thayer & Lane, 2000): This foundational paper describes how the brain, heart, and autonomic nervous system form a single regulatory network—showing how stress, emotion, and vagal tone directly influence pain, inflammation, and migraine thresholds. Read more here.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not substitute for providing medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional before making any health-related decisions. For women, men, and children who suffer from migraine disease, Migraine Heroes is your go-to resource for understanding, managing, and overcoming migraine attacks. We cover all types of migraines and related headaches, including primary and secondary migraines, chronic migraines, and cluster migraines. We dive deep into the complexities of migraine with aura and migraine without aura, as well as rarer forms like hemiplegic migraine, retinal migraine, and acephalgic migraine (silent migraine). Our discussions also extend to cervicogenic headaches, ice pick headaches, and pressure headaches, which often mimic migraine or contribute to overall migraine burden.

Transcript

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You've left the old routine, the old city, the old home, the old version of yourself.

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But in the mix, migraine entered your life and is now a part of it.

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Migraine Heroes is a podcast for chronic migraine sufferers who've seen countless

[00:18]

doctors with no results. Learn how to reduce your migraine attacks without

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endless medications or constant sacrifices. Hello, I'm Diane Ducarme. I've helped over

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500 people break free from migraine, even after suffering for up to 60 years.

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My mission in life? To bring this relief to a million people

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using a unique blend of Eastern medicine and Western science.

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In this episode, you will learn what happens in the brain and body during times of transition

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and why uncertainty feels so physically uncomfortable. How travel, change and emotional

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upheaval activate the same stress circuits and how to help your system adapt. And how both

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Western neuroscience and Eastern philosophy teach us to move through change without losing

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your center. Stay with me till the end because you will learn how to soften the impact of

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transition that first opened the door to migraine and how to walk through whatever

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change is unfolding now or ahead of you with steadier ground beneath your feet.

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In my work since 2019, I've seen something quietly universal. So many people develop

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migraine in moments of transition. A perfect storm forms. It's like a move, a new job,

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a shift in geography, becoming a parent or all of the above at once. And somewhere inside

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that swirl of change, migraine arrives. And then it stays long after the storm has passed.

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And the question lingers and lingers for years like a whisper. Did this begin because of that?

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Could it be? The only constant in life is change. And that is why this podcast matters to all of us.

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Our climate is changing. The food we eat is changing. The people we meet and listen to

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are changing. Our children are growing into their own worlds faster than we're ready for,

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changing us as they change themselves. Our routines shift. Our seasons shift. Our inner

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landscapes shift. And our nervous system, delicate, ancient, wise, is left to make sense of it all.

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The migraine brain isn't weak. It's hyper-attuned. It scans, it anticipates, it protects.

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It notices subtleties. Most people move past without a flicker. But when that vigilance

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becomes constant, it stops feeling intelligence and it starts feeling like imprisonment.

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A nervous system living on the edge of its seat. So if you've ever wondered whether that was you,

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and you do feel it is, I want to give you validation. Not from a place of arrogance

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and know-it-all, but because I have learned you can trust your intuition no matter what others

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say. I've also learned you're not alone. You just don't know about others the way, well, I do.

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I've been doing this for the last six years, since 2019. And I've seen this over and over again. And

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so my first ask in this podcast is to just take that moment of appreciation. You know this is

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what happens and you can have your heart rest in peace with it. Whether it's changing jobs,

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moving cities, ending a relationship, or simply shifting seasons, transitions challenge the brain's

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favorite function, which is prediction. The human brain is a forecasting machine. And it feels safe

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when it can guess what's going to happen next. And when that certainty disappears, even briefly,

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the amylda and insula, the brain's threat detectors, light up. Heart rate rises, sleep changes, focus

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scatters. And this is why transitions feel stressful. The brain is expanding energy to

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build a new map. There was a 2021 paper in Nature Reviews Neuroscience that found that uncertainty

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triggers the same neural pathways as physical pain. That's the anterior cingulate cortex and

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the periacutical gray, regions tied to distress and defensive behavior. Your body literally treats

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I don't know what's next as a survival problem. Travel triggers this too. Jet lag, new foods,

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shifts, daylight, all destabilize the circadian rhythm and cortisol rhythm. It is why even

[04:34]

exciting trips can feel draining. So even if you feel deep down that this transition was where it

[04:41]

all began, chances are you are absolutely right. Long before anyone named it, blamed it on something

[04:47]

else, or told you it was just stress, your intuition had already drawn the map. And between

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being dismissed, misunderstood, or pushed in 10 different directions, it's possible that what

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started as something episodic became something chronic. And for today, letting yourself hold this

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quiet truth, your sense of when it began was never wrong. You're not imagining it. You're not

[05:11]

overreacting. And you are certainly not alone. That validation, the simple recognition of your

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own knowing matters more than what most people realize. It's the first step towards steadiness,

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towards clarity, towards coming back home to yourself. And you will. I see it happen every day.

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It is possible. And if you're not sure where to start, think about your symptoms and your triggers.

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And you can find some of my podcasts on the topic. Now I want to be very, very pragmatic here.

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You can literally go on the migraineheroes.com and you go in the podcast section and you can

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search the topic of your symptoms, search the topic of the types of migraines you have.

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And you'll find very specific, specific podcasts dedicated free of charge to you to help you

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navigate. Okay. So step number one, acknowledge. Step number two, try to understand what message

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is now my brain trying to see. And over time, of course, it built a couple of layers. You need to

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listen to a couple of them to find your way. The Migraine Heroes app is also free of charge to

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track. Okay. We are upgrading it day by day to make it better and better. And one thing I promise

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you, I promise you, we are always advocating for your health. We are always on your side, always

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here with the sole purpose, the sole purpose of being helpful and guiding the way. We've done that

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for hundreds of people worldwide, and I am committed to doing that for a million people.

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Now, something else that is important, if you've acknowledged that this has been new in the past,

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change is a constant. So I want to talk to you and teach you in this podcast as well.

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How do you manage change moving forward? In traditional Chinese medicine and Eastern

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philosophy, transitions are not interruptions, they're seasons. And the pause in between the

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inhale and exhale, the dusk between the day and the night, the stillness before growth,

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that is that seasonality change. They call this moment the earth phase, a time to stabilize,

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to digest, to integrate before moving on. When you rush through transition, when you skip the earth,

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the place where meaning settles, that's when anxiety rises, digestion weakens, and sleep

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becomes restless. The medicine here is anchoring, eating warm, grounding foods instead of

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stimulating ones, moving slowly, walking instead of rushing, letting silence have a place between

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tasks. If your change is physical, like travel, give your body simple constants, warm breakfast,

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steady hydration, sunlight in the morning, deep breaths at night. If it's emotional,

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create small rituals that mark the shifts, journaling, breath works, lighting a candle

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before bed. These acts aren't symbolic, they're regulatory. They regulate your system. They tell

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your nervous system that transition is not danger, it's movement. In this framework, flowing through

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change isn't about avoiding chaos. It's about holding your center while the world rearranges

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around you. When the mind stays fluid, the body stays calm, and from calm, direction returns

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naturally. So if you feel ungrounded, halfway between what was and what's next, remember

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there's nothing wrong with you. You're not lost, you're in transit. The space between isn't a void,

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it's a bridge, and the stillness you resist might be the exact place your nervous system

[08:38]

rebuilt its strength from. Anchor yourself in small consistencies, hydrate, rest, breathe,

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keep gentle structure while everything else reorganizes. Because the body reads routine as

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safety, and safety is what turns surviving into flowing. When you stop rushing the in-between,

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you start hearing, and in that quiet, life reshapes itself from the inside out.

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So today I leave you with two advice. If you feel like transition has been the trigger for

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your migraine, the initiating point, just know, make that time for yourself to acknowledge you're

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right, you are absolutely right. And once you've acknowledged it, then go with your brain to explore

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the world. And I strongly encourage you, all of the podcasts are here to serve you. You can search

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them by name, things, symptoms, foods, triggers, things that put your detective hat on. The

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Migraine Heroes app is also here for you to try to help you track and start to see your patterns.

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If you are transitioning, try to find your ground, find your earth, find your center,

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try to find small routines to reassure your body of the transition. And that is and will

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always be true. Remember, constant is change. And remember, every small step you take

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moves you closer to freedom. You are powerful, you are resilient, and you're no longer alone.

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Keep rising, Migraine Hero.

Originally published December 2025

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