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How To Manage Migraines When Night Shifts & Baby or Partner Wake-Ups Ruin Your Sleep
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How To Manage Migraines When Night Shifts & Baby or Partner Wake-Ups Ruin Your Sleep

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Episode description

What happens when your baby wakes you multiple times a night… or your work schedule constantly disrupts your sleep—and suddenly your migraines become harder to manage?

In this episode of The Migraine Heroes Podcast, host Diane Ducarme explores the powerful connection between broken sleep and migraine attacks. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, healthcare worker, or shift worker, you’ll learn why disrupted sleep affects the migraine brain so deeply—and what you can realistically do to support your nervous system.

You’ll discover: 🌙 How disrupted sleep impacts your brain, stress hormones, and migraine threshold 🌙 Practical ways to support your nervous system even when your nights are unpredictable 🌙 A simple daily adjustment that can help your body recover faster from broken sleep cycles This episode blends neuroscience and practical lifestyle strategies to help you better understand your body and reduce overwhelm during demanding seasons of life.

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Transcript

[00:00]

What happens when your sleep is constantly interrupted and your migraines begin to

[00:05]

spiral out of control because of it? And the hardest part? You don't have a choice.

[00:13]

Welcome to Migraine Heroes, a podcast for people living with chronic migraines with years of pain,

[00:19]

misunderstanding and lack of answers. I'm Diane Ducarme.

[00:24]

I've helped more than a thousand people reduce the burden of migraines and feel more in control.

[00:30]

My mission in life? To help a million people. Each episode brings you grounded insight into

[00:36]

what your body might be asking for and what can truly help. Just to keep you fully supported,

[00:43]

this podcast is educational. For diagnosis or medication, always work with your doctor.

[00:50]

Now, take a breath and let's dive in.

[00:54]

In this episode, you will learn how disrupted sleep actually triggers migraines in your brain

[01:04]

and body so you can stop blaming yourself and start understanding what's happening.

[01:09]

Practical ways to protect your nervous system even when your nights are unpredictable

[01:14]

and a simple daily adjustment that will help your body recover faster from broken sleep cycles.

[01:21]

Stay with me till the end because at the end of this episode, you will have a simple,

[01:26]

realistic tool to protect your brain even if your nights remain unpredictable.

[01:31]

If you're waking up multiple times at night, whether for a crying baby, a snoring partner

[01:37]

or relentless shift work, you may feel like your body is constantly on edge. You try to function

[01:44]

but your brain feels foggy. Your threshold is lower and migraines seem to come out of nowhere.

[01:50]

It's exhausting, it's frustrating and it's oftentimes misunderstood.

[01:54]

From a Western perspective, we now know that migraine is a neurological condition

[01:59]

that involves altered brain excitability and sensory processing. Sleep is going to play

[02:06]

a critical role in regulating this specific system. Research published in the Journal

[02:12]

of Headache and Pain shows that sleep deprivation and fragmentation is going to increase your

[02:18]

cortical excitability, making the brain more sensitive to triggers.

[02:23]

There's a circadian rhythm disruption going on. Your body runs on a circadian rhythm,

[02:29]

sort of a 24-hour internal clock that regulates sleep, hormones and brain function. When

[02:35]

you wake up frequently, when you sleep at irregular times, when you work night shifts,

[02:41]

you disrupt this rhythm. A study in neurology found that irregular sleep patterns significantly

[02:46]

increase migraine frequency, particularly when sleep timing shifts. Sleep is going to affect

[02:53]

key migraine-related chemicals like serotonin, dopamine and melatonin. Serotonin is going to

[02:59]

drop with poor sleep and that's going to link to migraine onset. Dopamine is going to become

[03:04]

dysregulated, which is going to increase sensitivity to stimuli. And melatonin is

[03:09]

going to be reduced, which is going to weaken pain modulation. So here at this stage of the

[03:13]

podcast, I just really want to help you understand the mechanism of what's happening.

[03:19]

Your intuition is probably there. You know that sleep is playing a major role in your

[03:23]

migraine and I really want to make it intellectually possible to comprehend what's

[03:28]

happening. I promise you will get to what to do about it without changing the commitments,

[03:34]

if you can't change them. So part of these explanations, I want to talk about a system

[03:39]

called the glymphatic system. At night, your brain is going to activate a cleaning system

[03:46]

that's called the glymphatic system. And that's going to allow us to clear metabolic

[03:51]

wastes. And so when you have interrupted sleep, there's going to be sort of an incomplete

[03:57]

brain detox. And so according to science, which is a journal, the system is most active during

[04:04]

steep sleep and fragmented sleep reduces its efficiency, potentially contributing to

[04:09]

neuroinflammation, a known migraine driver. And in addition to that, every time you wake suddenly,

[04:15]

your body may activate a mini stress response, a cortical spike, heart rate increase, a

[04:21]

nervous system shifts toward alertness. And over time, this is going to create chronic

[04:26]

hyperarousal, lowering your migraine threshold. There's a line I once came across in a book

[04:33]

called Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker. It sort of stayed with me, it was an analogy he was giving.

[04:38]

Imagine you just had a newborn and the doctor tells you, oh, everything looks perfect, healthy,

[04:43]

strong, all vitals are good, very good, gorgeous baby. Oh, before I leave, yeah, something abnormal

[04:49]

we notice, your baby spends about a third of his time asleep. We're not entirely sure why,

[04:55]

but hey, otherwise, nothing to worry about. And so in that moment, you'd ponder and find that

[05:00]

absurd. You'd assume that the sleep thing must be doing something essential, especially if the

[05:06]

baby's completely healthy, something vital, maybe for learning, maybe for growth, maybe for regulation,

[05:12]

maybe for survival. And yet as adults, we dismiss it so easily. We cut it short, we fragment it,

[05:18]

we treat it as optional and we rush to be on time to meetings, but we tolerate more time on our

[05:24]

phones before our head hits the pillow. But if we spend a third of our life sleeping, it's not by

[05:28]

accident. Sleeping is not empty time. It's active, it's purposeful, it's deeply restorative. And so

[05:34]

that's what we understand from that Western perspective. Now I want to go east for a minute

[05:40]

and I really want to come to a solution because I'm really conscious for having spoken with many

[05:45]

of you that sometimes just night shifts, the baby crying, the partner waking you up, it's just

[05:50]

not an option to dismiss those. Okay, so let's go east. So from a traditional Chinese medicine

[05:55]

perspective, sleep is also not just rest. It's when your body restores its balance. And in the

[06:01]

same way, traditional Chinese medicine has for thousands of years described the body as moving

[06:06]

through precise circadian rhythms long before modern science began mapping biological clock.

[06:12]

And what's fascinating is that Western research is now catching up, confirming that our organs

[06:17]

and system follow time cycles of activity, repair, and detoxification. And so in DCM, there's an organ

[06:23]

clock where each system has a peak window of activity over a 24-hour cycle. So two of the most

[06:31]

critical windows happen at night, the gallbladder, which has its peak window of activity from 11 p.m.

[06:37]

to 1 a.m., and then the liver from 1 a.m. to 3 a.m. And these are not passive periods. They're deeply

[06:44]

active phases of restoration. The gallbladder is associated with decision making and cellular

[06:50]

repair, while the liver is central to detoxification, blood regulation, and the smooth flow of energy

[06:55]

throughout the body, also super hyperlinked to your brain. So if you're asleep during these,

[07:01]

your body can fully engage in these processes. But if your sleep is delayed or fragmented

[07:06]

or interrupted, these essential functions are compromised. And from a DCM perspective,

[07:10]

this directly impacts the liver system, which is, again, like I was mentioning, so much strong

[07:15]

connections to the brain, emotions, and therefore conditions, just like migraines. So when your sleep

[07:20]

is disrupted, especially during these windows, it's not just fatigue you're dealing with,

[07:25]

it's a missed opportunity for deep neurological and systemic restoration. And this is where

[07:30]

ancient wisdom and modern science quite limit. Timing matters, and night is not all the same.

[07:37]

So what happens when you know sleep matters deeply, biologically, neurologically, and yet

[07:42]

you don't have control over it? And this is the reality for so many people. I was speaking with

[07:47]

a nurse recently, and she told me how common migraines were among her colleagues. Night shifts

[07:52]

are simply part of the job. She had even calculated almost to the day how long she had left before

[07:59]

retirement. Stopping was not an option. And it's not just healthcare workers. Sometimes you're a

[08:05]

young mother, and your child wakes up at night, and you can't put earplugs or opt out. And sometimes

[08:11]

it's a partner, sometimes it's life. Your sleep is disrupted. You know, it's affecting your migraines,

[08:16]

and yet you can't change the circumstances. And so if that's you, this part is really for you.

[08:22]

In Japan, there is inemori, the idea of being present while resting. So it's culturally accepted

[08:30]

to briefly drift into light sleep in public or at work, not as a failure, but as a sign that you're

[08:38]

fully engaged in life and restoring yourself when needed. And it acknowledges that your body will

[08:43]

take the rest where it can, and that this has value. So I've lived in Asia for several years,

[08:50]

and I traveled extensively across the region, and I found myself taking pictures literally

[08:55]

of people sleeping in the most unexpected places. Not that I kept them neatly stored in albums,

[09:02]

but I can still picture so many of them vividly today. Someone asleep on a tractor in the middle

[09:07]

of a field, a commuter dozing while standing on a packed train, a shopkeeper napping behind a

[09:14]

counter, a construction worker curled up on a pile of materials, or someone resting peacefully on a

[09:21]

squatter at a red light. And at the time, I was amused. I remember wondering, what are they doing?

[09:28]

What are they thinking they're doing? But life can be intense. Early mornings, long commutes,

[09:34]

dense, fast-moving cities. And what I came to understand with time, these were not signs of

[09:39]

carelessness, but moments of restoration. People were simply replenishing their reserves wherever

[09:45]

and whenever they could. And there's something deeply wise in that. In China, there isn't a

[09:51]

direct equivalent word like inemuri, like in Japan. But there's a strong emphasis on midday rest,

[09:58]

especially around what is called the heart time, when lying down briefly is believed to support

[10:03]

circulation, calm the mind. It's part of maintaining balance. And in yogic traditions from

[10:08]

India, so still in Asia, you will find a very close parallel with yoga nidra, often translated

[10:14]

as yogic sleep. It's a guided state where the body is completely at rest, but the mind remains aware.

[10:21]

So physiologically, it closely resembles what we now call NSDR, non-sleep deep rest. And we're

[10:28]

actually rediscovering something that many Eastern traditions have long understood.

[10:33]

Rest is not binary. You don't have to be fully asleep to restore your system. I'll just repeat

[10:40]

that for a minute. You don't have to be fully asleep, so fully have a night of sleep to restore

[10:47]

your system. That's great news. And it's incredibly important if your sleep is disrupted. Even if you

[10:54]

cannot get perfect and interrupted night sleep, these states, whether it's a 15 minute power nap,

[11:00]

a quiet moment with eyes closed, an NSDR moment, or simply lying down and breathing deeply,

[11:06]

can help your brain reset, reduce the load on your nervous system and support your recovery.

[11:13]

For someone dealing with migraines, this can be a powerful reframe. It's not all or nothing.

[11:18]

You're not failing if your sleep is broken. You can still access layers of restoration

[11:24]

throughout the day. And sometimes these small intentional pauses, these moments of

[11:30]

not quite asleep, but deeply not awake, are exactly what your system needs to keep going.

[11:37]

So after taking the time to reflect on this, I'm going to make a simple commitment to myself.

[11:43]

The next day of deep rest, no sleep, just pause whenever I feel the need. Because so often

[11:48]

we're in this constant go, go, go, without interruption, the push through. And yet

[11:54]

giving yourself permission to stop to clear the mind, even briefly, can be incredibly powerful.

[11:59]

It's not about doing more, it's about allowing your system to reset. So this is something I'm

[12:04]

choosing to do and I invite you to do it alongside with me. And remember, every small step you take

[12:12]

moves you closer to freedom. You are powerful, you are resilient,

[12:17]

and you're not alone. Keep rising, My Green Hero.

Originally published May 2026

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Portrait of a smiling older woman with short gray hair and round glasses, representing a 20-year migraine journey.

Susanne

55 years old, New Zealand

Self-reported migraine

At start:

17 days/month

After 4 months:

3 days/month

What changed

Susanne had gone nearly four weeks without an attack and said she could manage the early signs when they appeared.

“It's trusting in the process and trusting in yourself, I guess, is what I've learned.”