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Ever feel like your body is carrying something your mind hasn't fully processed yet?
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Like your pain might be speaking the language your heart never got to?
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Today, we're talking about the grief-migraine link, when unprocessed emotions block the
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flow of energy, creating tension and pain in the head.
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Migraine Heroes is a podcast for chronic migraine sufferers who've seen countless doctors with
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Learn how to reduce your migraine attacks without endless medications or constant sacrifices.
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Hello, I'm Diane Ducarme, I've helped over 500 people break free from migraine, even
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after suffering for up to 60 years.
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My mission in life?
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To bring this relief to a million people, using a unique blend of Eastern medicine and
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In this episode, you will learn how grief, not just loss of a loved one, but any deep
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emotional wound, can become a physical trigger for your migraines, and what to look out for.
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Three practical strategies to begin healing those underlying emotions, so that your migraine
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frequency and intensity can start to shift.
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And how Eastern medicine practices view grief and pain.
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Stay with me till the end, because this part reveals why your body may keep signalling pain
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when the emotional wound hasn't been acknowledged.
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And it's not just in your head.
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When we look at migraines through the lens of modern science, we often think of blood
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vessels, neurons, and pain signals.
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But research over the past decade has revealed something deeper.
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Migraines are not just neurological events, they're also emotional ones.
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And grief, especially when it remains unprocessed, doesn't stay confined to the heart or the
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It leaves a signature in the body.
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Neuroimaging studies show that regions like the amylda insula, the prefrontal cortex, areas
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that regulate both pain and emotions, become highly active during these migraine attacks.
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These are the same regions that light up when someone experiences loss or emotional trauma.
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So when someone goes through grief, especially prolonged or unresolved grief, the brain
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stress and pain circuits can become more sensitive.
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What scientists call central sensitization,
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the nervous system starts to stay on alert, as if bracing for impact.
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This heightened state makes the body more reactive to stress, hormones, and even subtle
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In this way, a migraine can sometimes be the body's way of expressing what hasn't yet
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been spoken, a physical echo of emotional tension that's being held too long.
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Please back this up.
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Research by Kim et al. shows that people with migraine often have stronger emotional responses
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to pain, fear, anxiety, catastrophizing, and often, and these emotional patterns independently
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predict the level of migraine disability.
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Other work by O'Connor in 2019 found that unresolved grief changes the brain's wiring,
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it activates stress circuits and surpasses areas responsible for regulation and calm.
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In simple terms, grief can keep the body in a loop of vigilance.
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The nervous system doesn't fully rest, sleep becomes lighter, muscles hold tension, digestion
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slows, the body stays slightly on.
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Over time, this constant low-grade stress taxes the brain's ability to filter signals,
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and pain begins to rise to the surface more easily.
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Migraines then aren't only about pain, they can be messages from a nervous system that
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has lost its rhythm, a call to process what's still being held beneath the surface.
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Healing this connection isn't about ignoring biology, it's about addressing the full picture.
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This means working with both the nervous system and the emotional landscape it lives in, regulating
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stress through deep breathing and somatic grounding, acknowledging grief through journaling,
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therapy, or safe emotional release, supporting the body with constant nourishment, hydration,
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I remember when I was 7 and I lost my godfather, I was going to see a psychiatrist and she
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was always making me draw.
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So for me, writing is a way to get my grief out of my system and to actually process it.
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When we begin to soothe both the brain and the heart, the migraine frequency often shifts,
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the pain circuits quiet, the body learns, little by little, that it's safe to exhale again.
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When a traditional transmission looks at migraine tied to grief, it doesn't see a stress response
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or an emotional fatigue, it sees a story written in the body, a sign that something
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in the natural movement of qi and fluids has been held back, condensed, and turned inward.
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Grief is the emotion of the lungs.
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In traditional transmission, the lungs are not only an organ for breath, they are the
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gate between the inner and the outer world, they help us take in inward what nourishes
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us and let go of what no longer serves.
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And so when grief is processed, the lungs expand, release, and exhale fully, but when
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grief is held, unspoken, unresolved, and carried too long, the lungs tighten, the breath becomes
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shallow and the movement of qi begins to stagnate.
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And the stagnation doesn't stay in the chest, over time it presses downward on the spleen
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and digestive system, weakening transformation, while also constricting the free flow of liver
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The result is a kind of inner pressure cooker, emotions and energy that can't rise and
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descend naturally to rebound upward toward the head.
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And that's where migraine begins, and oftentimes my experience is that it can manifest
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in the sinuses, but the temples might tighten, the jaw clenching, the eyes grow heavy or
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painful, that's the body saying something needs to be released.
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In traditional Chinese medicine terms, this is liver qi rising against its natural direction,
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colliding with the tightness left by the unresolved sadness of the lungs.
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So when qi moves upward, it bursts instead of flowing in rhythm.
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It carries with it heat, frustration, and the damp heaviness of unexpressed tears.
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That mixture can cloud the clear yang of the head, creating the dizziness, the fog, the
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throbbing pain we call migraine.
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In sum, this pattern shows after loss or heartbreak, in others it comes from years
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of holding emotions too tightly, caring for others, staying composed, never fully exhaling.
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Either way, the result is the same.
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And so if this is you today, I send you all of my thoughts, these are really hard moments
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to go through, give yourself time, give yourself space, and try to draw, try to write, try
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to express, and don't hold things inside, and accept that little by little, the light
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will shine through again.
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And remember, every small step you take moves you closer to freedom.
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You are powerful, you are resilient, and you are no longer alone.
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Keep rising, Migraine Hero.
