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Is Your Doctor Dismissing Your Migraines? Here’s How to Get the Care You Need

19 min

Have doctors dismissed your migraine? You’re not alone—here’s why the system fails and how to reclaim control

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Have you ever felt like your migraine symptoms are being ignored—or worse, dismissed—by your doctor? You’re not imagining it. Despite being one of the leading causes of disability worldwide, migraine is often underestimated, misdiagnosed, and mistreated by the very people we trust to help us. In this episode, we break down why the medical system frequently fails people with migraine—and how you can take control of your care.

What you’ll learn:

  • Why many doctors (and even neurologists) lack proper training in migraine care—and how this systemic gap affects your diagnosis and treatment.
  • How to recognize subtle signs that your symptoms are being dismissed—and what to do if you’re not being heard.
  • Practical steps to advocate for yourself, improve doctor communication, and find a specialist who actually understands migraine.

You’ll also hear about the deeper biases in medicine—like the gender gap in pain perception—and why migraine is still considered "just a headache" in too many exam rooms.

If you’ve ever left a medical appointment feeling confused, belittled, or hopeless, this episode will help you rebuild confidence in yourself, ask better questions, and finally get the care you deserve.

Transcript

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Have you ever felt like your doctor doesn't take your migraines seriously?

[00:05]

You're not alone.

[00:08]

Migraine Heroes is a podcast for chronic migraine sufferers

[00:12]

who've seen countless doctors with no results.

[00:16]

Learn how to reduce your migraine attacks without endless medications or constant sacrifices.

[00:22]

Hello, I'm Diane Ducarme. I've helped over 500 people break free from migraine,

[00:28]

even after suffering for up to 60 years.

[00:31]

My mission in life?

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To bring this relief to a million people

[00:35]

using a unique blend of Eastern medicine and Western science.

[00:42]

In this episode, you will learn why most doctors and even

[00:45]

neurologists often lack proper training in migraine treatment.

[00:50]

How to recognize when your doctor is dismissing your symptoms

[00:54]

and what to do about it.

[00:56]

How to advocate for better care and find specialists who truly understand migraine.

[01:02]

Before we start, it's important to acknowledge and honor

[01:05]

the many doctors that truly do understand migraine disease.

[01:10]

While the majority lacks migraine knowledge,

[01:13]

some have gone beyond standard training pursuing specialized education in migraine care,

[01:18]

driven purely by their commitment to patient well-being.

[01:23]

Many of the people we help are referred to us by doctors.

[01:27]

We even work directly with doctors themselves on their migraine profile,

[01:32]

with nurses and pharmacists too.

[01:35]

They are an essential part of our society.

[01:38]

Our goal in this podcast is to reveal how we came to collectively

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ignore one of the greatest health burdens on the planet

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and how we can change that for the millions living with migraine.

[01:52]

The first thing I want to talk about is the migraine paradox.

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How is it possible that we have a global burden that is completely minimized by the medical system?

[02:04]

Migraine is one of the top causes of disability.

[02:08]

According to the Global Burden of Disease 2021 study,

[02:12]

migraine ranks as the fourth leading cause of years lived with disability worldwide.

[02:19]

For women under 50, migraine has consistently been the leading cause,

[02:25]

the number one cause of disability.

[02:28]

These rankings place migraine alongside major global diseases.

[02:32]

But here is the catch.

[02:36]

Only when you measure disability.

[02:39]

Where migraine slips in priority is when you look at disability-adjusted life years,

[02:46]

which combine years lived with disability and years of life lost due to premature death.

[02:54]

And migraine usually doesn't kill.

[02:58]

Because migraine rarely causes death,

[03:01]

it loses visibility in systems that measure impact through mortality.

[03:06]

In short, because cardiovascular disease kills, it takes precedence and priority.

[03:13]

The result is that a condition that disables over a billion people

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is often under-recognized, under-treated, and dismissed altogether.

[03:24]

This is the migraine paradox.

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The burden is massive, but the response is not.

[03:30]

We're here to change that.

[03:33]

So why are migraines underestimated and mishandled in Western medicine in particular?

[03:39]

We will talk about four issues.

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Issue number one, the training gap.

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Just a headache starts in school.

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A significant contributor to the inadequate management of migraine

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appears to be insufficient education during medical training.

[03:57]

Studies reveal that dedicated education on headache disorders, including migraine,

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occupies a remarkably small proportion of the medical school curriculum.

[04:08]

We are talking here less than five hours over years of training for most schools.

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Critically, more than 90% of institutions indicated no plans to increase headache education,

[04:21]

suggesting that the existing minimal coverage was sufficient.

[04:26]

Despite the rising burden of headaches, medical schools remain complacent.

[04:30]

The same study found that residency directors,

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so the bosses in residency in family medicine and neurology,

[04:37]

saw the new doctors unprepared.

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The consequences of this training gap are evident in primary care settings.

[04:44]

Studies indicate that many primary care physicians

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lack familiarity with the established migraine treatment guidelines.

[04:53]

This lack of knowledge, potentially combined with time pressure in busy clinics,

[04:58]

can lead to suboptimal treatment strategies.

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Some primary care physicians express a lack of confidence and even a sense of dread

[05:06]

when managing migraine patients.

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Efforts to improve headache education face hurdles.

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Medical schools cite insufficient time with packed curricula,

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a lack of administrative support for developing or prioritizing headache modules,

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limited availability of educational resources,

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and even a perceived lack of student interest as key barriers.

[05:31]

Issue number two.

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The specialist gap.

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Neurologists aren't always headache experts.

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So while migraine is fundamentally a neurological disorder,

[05:43]

seeking care from a neurologist does also not guarantee access to specialized headache expertise.

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The field of neurology is really vast,

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encompassing a wide array of complex conditions,

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such as stroke, epilepsy, dementia, multiple sclerosis,

[06:00]

Parkinson's disease, and neuromuscular disorders.

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Four out of six I just cited can lead to death and therefore seen perceived more urgent.

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Within neurology, only a relatively small fraction of practitioners

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choose to subspecialize in headache medicine.

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Many neurologists dedicate their focus and practice to other areas,

[06:22]

like epilepsy and stroke management.

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The United Council for Neurologic Subspecialties,

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which provides certification for headache medicine,

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listed only 729 certified specialists in the US as of 2023.

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This number pales in comparison to the estimated tens of millions of Americans living with migraine.

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Headache medicine itself is a relatively young subspecialty,

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gaining formal recognition only within the last 15 to 20 years.

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Now I want to insist that here, a lot of the data comes from the US,

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as these trends are absolutely applicable to other countries as well.

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The consequence here is a significant shortage of qualified headache specialists to meet patient

[07:07]

needs. So many states are reporting in the US a lack even of a single more certified

[07:14]

headache medicine specialist, just a single one within a state.

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Despite the specialist shortage,

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headache remains the most common reason patients are referred to neurologists,

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accounting for nearly 2 million visits annually in the US.

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This really high volume, coupled with a limited number of dedicated health experts,

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creates a significant bottleneck.

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Issue number three, gender bias, the emotional woman.

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A crucial yet often uncomfortable factor contributing to the dismissal of migraine

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is gender bias. Migraine exhibits a pronounced gender disparity,

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affecting women three to four times more than men.

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A body of evidence indicates a pervasive tendency within the health care system

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to underestimate, dismiss or psychologize women's pain compared to men's.

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This general bias has direct implications for migraine care.

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Women with migraine tend to report higher levels of disability,

[08:18]

longer attack durations and more associated symptoms compared to men.

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Despite this greater burden, they may encounter stigma and receive less comprehensive care,

[08:29]

increasing the risk of underdiagnosis, undertreatment

[08:33]

and the development of medication overuse headache.

[08:37]

Clinicians might incorrectly attribute migraine symptoms solely to comorbid anxiety or depression,

[08:44]

conditions that are indeed more prevalent in migraine sufferers.

[08:48]

Issue number four, primary care treatment patterns.

[08:52]

Are we doing acute relief over proper prevention?

[08:57]

The typical approach to migraine management in primary care setting

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often appears more reactive than proactive,

[09:05]

potentially contributing to suboptimal long-term outcomes.

[09:09]

Evidence suggests a strong emphasis on treating migraine attacks themselves as they occur,

[09:16]

rather than focusing equally on preventing them.

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Many physicians may default to prescribing acute medications,

[09:24]

such as over-the-counter painkillers, non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs

[09:29]

or migraine-specific triptans, without sufficiently exploring preventative strategies

[09:34]

or addressing underlying triggers.

[09:37]

An over-reliance on acute medication carries significant risk of,

[09:41]

what you now know, developing medication overuse headaches.

[09:45]

A migraine caused by frequent use of migraine medication themselves,

[09:49]

and this is trapping patients in a cycle of escalating headache frequency and medication use.

[09:57]

A key aspect of effective migraine management involves identifying and managing individual

[10:03]

triggers, which can range from stress, hormonal fluctuations, and sleep disturbances,

[10:09]

to dietary factors, weather changes, and sensory stimuli.

[10:12]

However, uncovering these triggers typically requires detailed patient tracking

[10:17]

and detailed discussion, time during appointments,

[10:21]

elements that may be lacking, and brief primary care visits focused on acute symptoms management.

[10:28]

Now, what's the ripple effect? What are the consequences of inadequate migraine care?

[10:36]

When migraine is not taken seriously, misdiagnosed, or inadequately treated,

[10:42]

the consequences extend far beyond the immediate pain of an attack.

[10:48]

Misdiagnosing migraine is both common and costly.

[10:52]

Up to 80% of migraine patients are initially given the wrong diagnosis,

[10:58]

often mislabeled with sinus issues, tension headaches, or general head pain.

[11:04]

This happens because diagnosing migraine requires pattern recognition and careful history-taking,

[11:09]

skills many providers lack due to insufficient training.

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As a result, patients bounce between emergency rooms, specialists, and unnecessary treatments,

[11:19]

with one study showing nearly six times more neurologist visits

[11:23]

and significantly higher healthcare costs for those misdiagnosed.

[11:28]

Worse than that, delays in proper diagnostic and treatment can cause

[11:32]

episodic migraines to progress into chronic migraine,

[11:35]

turning an already disabling condition into a daily battle.

[11:40]

So, I want to share a little bit of a very personal experience on this topic.

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The first person, as you probably know from the website I help with my sister,

[11:48]

she was 10 years ago, she was suffering from migraines for three years,

[11:52]

and our uncle had died of a brain tumor and I helped her.

[11:56]

Within three to four months, she had no more migraines.

[11:58]

I did that with Dr. Zhang.

[12:00]

And so, when my friend from New York told me she had migraines for seven years

[12:04]

and they were very debilitating, I said I was very sorry.

[12:07]

And she said that she had had a very confrontational conversation with her dad

[12:11]

because her dad had told her to medicate for a lifetime, including having injections.

[12:17]

And you probably have heard this story as well in some podcasts.

[12:22]

But here's the part that I've, until now, never really told before.

[12:28]

I was really proud.

[12:29]

His daughter, he was a neurologist and we got her out of migraines

[12:32]

and it took three to four months.

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It wasn't even, quote unquote, that hard.

[12:36]

I had done that with Dr. Zhang.

[12:38]

I felt super proud and felt super excited to go and talk to him

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and to have such an intellectual and amazing, enlightening conversation about

[12:45]

how they look at it and how, you know, maybe it was not about muting the problem,

[12:49]

but trying to listen to it and address the root cause.

[12:51]

And the conversation I had was profoundly different.

[12:55]

He said to me that he didn't really doubt I had done what I had done,

[12:59]

but that I should never develop migraine heroes.

[13:03]

Because he said that he would never recommend a service like mine

[13:06]

and other neurologists wouldn't

[13:08]

because I wouldn't be able to pay them the amount of money

[13:11]

they would be paid by pharmaceutical companies on medications to do that.

[13:16]

And so therefore, I shouldn't develop the business because it would never go anywhere.

[13:20]

And there I was trying to explain to a doctor something about health

[13:24]

and he was trying to teach me business.

[13:27]

I studied at the Harvard Business School.

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I know business.

[13:30]

This was not business.

[13:31]

This was health.

[13:34]

And we were having this conversation.

[13:35]

I just couldn't believe it.

[13:37]

And so I said, look, I will find people who are interested.

[13:42]

I will find companies and address myself to companies, which we will do.

[13:46]

I will address myself to insurers, which we will do.

[13:49]

I will address myself to governments and sensible governments and say,

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look, you're leaving money on the table.

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You're leaving people sick.

[13:57]

Can you help, please?

[13:59]

And he said, oh, yeah, that's probably quite smart.

[14:01]

Probably that would work.

[14:02]

But surely, you know, we neurologists would not do that.

[14:05]

Now, his belief and his way of thinking,

[14:08]

and I really do not think it represents a majority of people,

[14:11]

but it did that day really remind me

[14:15]

of how much the nature of a business problem this all is.

[14:20]

Later on, I faced a similar conversation

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as I had a number of investors who wanted to invest in my business.

[14:27]

There were seven of them across the US and Australia and New Zealand.

[14:32]

And one of them asked a question.

[14:34]

He said, oh, you solve people's problems.

[14:37]

Yeah, that's a problem.

[14:38]

You solve the migraine.

[14:38]

It's a problem.

[14:40]

Can you make them sick longer?

[14:42]

And I said, excuse me?

[14:43]

Yeah.

[14:44]

Can you make them sick longer?

[14:45]

It's a business issue if you solve their problem.

[14:47]

And this is really when with these two experiences, I figured out it is a business problem.

[14:53]

You often hear me say, if you meet me, that in 1969, we went to the moon.

[14:58]

Is helping solving your migraine harder than going to the moon?

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I don't think so.

[15:03]

Can we do it?

[15:04]

Yes, we can. It's

[15:05]

complicated.

[15:06]

Of course, everyone's different and it's dynamic.

[15:08]

Migraine is a moving target.

[15:10]

However, is that impossible?

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Absolutely not.

[15:13]

If you set your mind to do it, it's actually feasible.

[15:16]

And that's what we've decided to do every day.

[15:19]

At that moment, I understood I'm going to be alone.

[15:22]

And so as a family, we decided my husband would do well and I would do good.

[15:27]

And that as a family, that's the balance that we would find.

[15:30]

And so I'm incredibly grateful because he supported me in my intellectual quest and

[15:35]

integrity to try and do the right thing.

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And so the results that you see in the Migraine Heroes app today is the results of a collection

[15:44]

of nine of us trying to do the right thing every day.

[15:48]

So how to take control of your migraine care?

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There's five things I want you to do, and I want you to do all five of them.

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So make sure you tick those boxes off.

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The first one is you need a proper diagnosis.

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It's important to get diagnosed properly.

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This is why doctors are so helpful and so kind.

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Do that MRI. Do that CD scan. Exclude all other possibilities.

[16:11]

Number two, I want you to track your migraine attacks and symptoms.

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Why?

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Because knowledge is power.

[16:18]

Spot your own patterns.

[16:20]

Are your migraines tied to your cycle? Tied to barometric pressure? Tied to stress or

[16:24]

seemingly random?

[16:26]

Advocate for yourself.

[16:27]

Tracking is going to help prove when a medication isn't working.

[16:31]

It's going to help support your insurance claim.

[16:33]

We'll cover that in another episode.

[16:35]

The Migraine Heroes app allows you to do all of that tracking for free.

[16:40]

And once you track, we can interpret your data.

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In our next release, I'm super proud of this,

[16:44]

you'll get personalized reports based on Global Insights because we work with migraine

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sufferers worldwide and that we solve them.

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We often spot patterns even seasoned doctors will miss.

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The third thing I want you to do is I want you to foster a better communication with

[17:00]

your doctor. Come prepared

[17:02]

before your visit. Summarize your migraine history and write down your top two to three

[17:06]

questions.

[17:07]

This is going to help your explanations be focused and impactful.

[17:10]

You can ask clear and respectful questions like what is your experience with migraine?

[17:15]

Where did you train in migraine management?

[17:17]

Are you sponsored by pharmaceutical companies?

[17:19]

Why are you giving me this treatment over another?

[17:23]

Don't hide your truth.

[17:24]

Let them know how hard this journey has been.

[17:27]

When I review test results with women, you know, I would say one in three times that person

[17:32]

is going to cry.

[17:33]

It's a long journey.

[17:35]

And I'll admit for me, it's really hard to hear them too.

[17:38]

What you go and what you go through and what you live is really hard.

[17:41]

Not everyone will listen.

[17:43]

So sharpen your words, stand tall and speak up.

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Feel and be tough in your words.

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You can speak back.

[17:49]

You can speak loud.

[17:51]

Encourage also collaboration.

[17:52]

Use language like I'd like to explore these options together

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to open the door for shared decision making.

[17:58]

You are also in the driving seat.

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Now, number four, know when to seek specialist or second opinion.

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If your migraines are frequent, worsening or not responding to treatment, ask for a

[18:11]

referral.

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Look for neurologists who are certified in headache medicine or affiliated in headache

[18:16]

center.

[18:17]

Don't hesitate to get a second opinion.

[18:19]

It's common, it's wise and it's often necessary.

[18:22]

And then last but certainly not least, trust your instincts.

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If you're being dismissed or your symptoms are labeled as just stress, speak up.

[18:31]

You know your body.

[18:32]

Don't let anyone downplay your experience.

[18:35]

If something doesn't feel right, advocate, ask for more evaluation and change provider.

[18:41]

And remember, every small step you take moves you closer to freedom.

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You are powerful, you are resilient and you're never alone.

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Keep rising, migraine hero.

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Originally published April 2025

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